Tending Resilience

Somatic Experiencing

with Betania Ridenour, SEP

About me:

Hi there! My name is Betania (They/She). I am a queer mixed Chicanx who was raised up by trees. I have been on a healing journey for much of my life. Somatic Experiencing (SE) has been one of the foundational pieces in coming back to myself. I hold it as a huge honor to be able to sit with and uplift others in support & solidarity of their healing. In my work, I emphasize interconnectedness, recognizing that healing isn't just an individual journey but one that is nurtured through safe & supportive environments. My cosmology is deeply rooted in community care, ancestral healing, and relationship with the living world around us. I approach the work I do with authenticity, empathy, accountability, and humor. I offer trauma-informed, queer-positive, neurodiversity & intersectionality affirming care that honors each person's unique path to healing.

What is Somatic Experiencing?

Somatic Experiencing (SE™) is a body-centered approach to trauma healing. When our natural self-protective responses of fight, flight, or freeze are (for whatever reason) left incomplete or unresolved, they can become stuck in the body. SE helps us renegotiate and find the completion necessary to release these stuck survival energies, resulting in greater capacity and resilience. SE provides practical tools for working with physiological states that have preoccupied and overwhelmed our systems. Trauma can arise from many different experiences, all of which can deeply impact an individual's capacity to move through the world with ease.

Unlike top-down approaches that primarily focus on thoughts and conscious processing, Somatic Experiencing (SE) is a body-centered practice that prioritizes sensations and physiological responses as pathways toward healing. In SE, we become curious about what our bodies are trying to communicate. Together, we attend to the emotional landscape and autonomic nervous system, creating safety and spaciousness for our bodies to release what no longer serves us. As we tend to the stories our bodies are trying to tell, we allow time and space for integration. By listening to the body and supporting the nervous system, we create the conditions for resolution, helping us move beyond survival mode and toward greater capacity, choice, and agency.

On ‘Tending Resilience’

The term 'resilience' has often been weaponized in our communities, used to deflect attention from systemic injustices and minimize the impact of trauma. For many of us, resilience wasn’t a choice — it was necessary for survival. To reframe resilience as a form of resistance and agency, I chose the term 'Tending Resilience.' This emphasizes that resilience isn’t about simply enduring; it’s about actively nurturing and caring for the strength that emerges from our struggles. Tending resilience is an ongoing, participatory process rooted in care, reflection, and connection, and it goes beyond just surviving. It’s about resisting oppressive systems, advocating for systemic change, and building the kind of support that uplifts all of us. By tending resilience, we honor the small, daily acts of care, reflection, and connection that empower our communities and sustain us, challenging narratives that glorify individual endurance while ignoring systemic injustice.

  • Community

    In this practice, we reject the colonizer mindset of hyper-individuality. Our well being is deeply tied to right relationship with others and the earth itself. We honor the wisdom of community. 

  • Care

    Care is the foundation for healing, creating a space where individuals can feel seen and valued. By honoring each person’s unique journey, we pave the way for transformative and collective healing.

  • Compassion

    Compassion is at the heart of this work. By meeting ourselves and one another with kindness, curiosity, and respect, we nurture the conditions for connection, belonging, and transformation.

Healing is possible

Healing is possible